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    September 21, 2015

    I’m re-watching “My So-Called Life” and this song was in the pilot episode – Everybody Hurts by REM.  Today it seems particularly appropriate since in my own life and family the Oh Crap punches just keep coming.

    This month I celebrate the anniversary of my almost falling off the edge back in 2008.  I say celebrate because it was the true beginning of my recovery from depression and the things that contributed to it.   I took a walk in the cool morning air at the local duck pond one morning and realized that I had to hang on – for my children’s sake mostly –  because I didn’t know what the future held.   Maybe things could (and would) actually get better.   That’s what kept me hanging on.  That was the real beginning to my recovery.  And here I am 7 years later still making progress, still hanging on.   Some things haven’t changed, some may never change, but many others have and for the better.

    I could talk more, but I won’t because I tend to derail things so quickly.  And I won’t comment because I think this song is simple enough to get.  Just know you are not alone – even if you feel like it – there are people who can help you.  And there are other people who are hurting who need a friend and you could be that friend.

    “Everybody Hurts” – REM

    When your day is long
    And the night, the night is yours alone
    When you’re sure you’ve had enough
    Of this life, well hang on

    Don’t let yourself go
    ‘Cause everybody cries
    And everybody hurts sometimes

    Sometimes everything is wrong
    Now it’s time to sing along
    When your day is night alone (Hold on, hold on)
    If you feel like letting go (Hold on)
    If you think you’ve had too much
    Of this life, well hang on

    Everybody hurts
    Take comfort in your friends
    Everybody hurts
    Don’t throw your hand, oh no

    Don’t throw your hand
    If you feel like you’re alone
    No, no, no, you are not alone

    If you’re on your own in this life
    The days and nights are long
    When you think you’ve had too much of this life to hang on

    Well, everybody hurts sometimes
    Everybody cries
    Everybody hurts sometimes
    And everybody hurts sometimes

    So hold on, hold on
    Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on
    Everybody hurts

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Hi - welcome to Oh Crap! and if you come back enough times you'll soon find out why I named my blog that.

I am an unperfect mom to 8 great kids: 5 boys and 3 girls (and I had them in that order too).

I have been married for either 40 really long or really short years depending on how my day is going.

Even though I have homeschooled my children for the last 31 years, I am certainly no supermom - unless you count the days I have to rescue my daughters from a moth in their room.

I love coffee, chocolate, and music from the 80's. I enjoy reading books, chick flicks, and thirtysomething.

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